The weight of waiting: An Advent reflection by Rev. Laura Murray

There is a weightiness that comes from waiting. Unknowns of the future, questions about decisions from the past, and the space in between. In this weightiness comes the wearies of our world and a weariness that comes with waiting. 

Are you weary from the weight of waiting?

Over 2,000 years ago there was a couple who had been waiting for many things. For a child, for the Savior. This couple was highly respected in the community, they were leaders, faithful to God and their work. We can only imagine what it was like being in the public eye and weary from waiting. To lead and to lament.

We have all felt the waiting and grown weary. And we are not the first nor will we be the last. And we are not alone.

As you read their story here, put yourself in the story. Imagine what it would have been like to be one of them. Read or listen to it a few times if you want to get more into the story. After this time of imagining, reflect back on their story and your story through the questions below:

- Is there a longing or a hope that seems long past possibility?

- Because of your circumstances, is there a promise of God you have questioned?

- Have you been able to continue in the good works God has for you to do?

- What is it like to continue in good works and grieve a lost hope?

- How does Zechariah, Elizabeth, and John’s story encourage you?

- How can the following Scripture serve as a way to trust God’s promise?

- How might God want to speak peace to your fears?"

As we wait, we do not do so alone. We wait with others, we are not alone. After you go through this Scripture and these questions, share your reflections with a friend or loved one. Invite them to explore the story with you as well. As you do so with others, may you be strengthened and encouraged in your waiting, as we wait together for all to be made new.

This meditation was written by Retreat House Partner Rev. Laura Murray. Laura is a trained spiritual director, author, speak and coach. Part of her ministry and passion is developing rhythms of life for leaders. Learn more about Laura.